Why is it connorandgrace.com instead of graceandconnor.com?

connorandgrace.com was available when we registered the domain. graceandconnor.com was not. Some nerds in Wisconsin are also getting married.

Where?

Healdsburg, CA.

When?

April 17, 2027. The details of any rumored surrounding parties are still under deliberation.

What should I wear?

Please dress in vineyard semi-formal attire. A few notes:

• We recommend that you bring a jacket/layers, as Sonoma can cool off quite a bit at night. For the men attending, a jacket or sportcoat is a handsome way to keep warm.
• Some allowances are of course granted for footware.
• Colorful attire is welcome!

What shouldn’t I wear?

• White (or cream, or ivory, or any other off-white clothing). But you already knew that :-)
• Stiletto heels. Sonoma can be muddy in April, and our ceremony will be outdoors in a vineyard. You have been warned.
  • At the very least, we recommend bringing a pair of “outside shoes”—such as flats or block heels—for the ceremony. The reception and cocktail hour will be on concrete.
• Axe body spray.

How do I get there?

If you live in the area, you can drive. If you don’t, you can take an airplane (or drive). We have a whole page dedicated to this question (that we have not filled out yet, so stay tuned).

Where should I stay?

We would recommend a hotel. We are working on getting some reserved rooms. If/when we get a hotel block, the details will be posted at the linked page. There are also a ton of AirBnBs in the area.

Can I bring kids?

We respectfully ask that you leave your (or anyone else’s) kids at home. For our guests who are traveling to join us, we are looking at coordinating shared childcare for the day of the ceremony.

When can I RSVP?

You should get an actual invitation in the mail with instructions. If you came here from our save-the-date, congratulations! You are early.

Will there be meal options?

Yes. We’re working on it.

Do I get a plus one?

If it said so on your invitation.

Why is your website so…?

Beautiful? Thank you for noticing. It was handwritten in a couple of hours (without the use of AI or Tailwind). Artisinal style. Who needs The Knot? Or (god forbid) SquareSpace?